What we leave behind
Most of us want to leave something of value and meaning when we leave this earth. Organizing and sorting through our things and memories can be a daunting task, however. Our elders can leave us a priceless gift whether or not they leave material wealth, they can leave us their stories and treasures of memory. A legacy isn’t measured by the number of dollars or the amount of property, but in our memorable stories and cherished family heirlooms. 
Helping a loved one with the task of leaving a meaningful legacy is an honor. Younger generations have a longing to know the stories and wisdom that their elders have spent a lifetime earning. Little details about a time gone by, as well as the big life lessons are all appreciated by the generations that follow.
Here are some ways to preserve those memories so that our family history is not lost when our loved ones pass on.
- Write down or have someone transcribe your stories into a narrative to be enjoyed by your children, grandchildren and on into the future. For a list of great questions to ask your relative or yourself when writing a memoir, see http://storycorps.org/great-questions/, a list of thought-provoking questions provided by Story Corps.
- Make a family tree. There are many ways to create this kind of legacy. You’ll find some unique ideas for creating a one-of-a-kind family tree at http://www.aplaceformom.com/blog/5-8-14-inspirational-family-trees/
- Make a video or audio recording. This method of preserving family history can be particularly powerful and moving. Visit http://www.storypress.net/about to learn about one method of recording your life stories.
- Make a collection of family recipes. Families bond over food, and for all of us, certain foods can evoke profound memories. Collecting special family recipes into a book or notebook is another way older family members can preserve their family identity and cultural heritage.
Of course there are many other ways to leave a legacy for your family. Hopefully this has started you thinking about how your unique family will go about creating something that expresses their individuality for the generations that follow. Go here to learn more about Harmony Senior Homes and our family style assisted living in Vancouver WA .